When Achraf Hakimi met Hiba Abouk in 2018 at a photo shoot for Vogue Arabia while he was playing for Real Madrid, love sparked in their hearts.
The feeling was mutual and they went public at a charity event in Madrid in June 2019.
Two months after, they made things official on Instagram.
In 2020 they married in secret and two babies followed afterwards.
However, things fell apart after Achraf was accused of rape in February.
Claims are everywhere that she refused to speak up for her husband on that accusation.
“I will stand with the victim,” she says.
Also, she emphasised that she trusted the court to deliver justice.
Now, her own justice has been served ahead of the rape case.
She may be in wonder of how she had stayed committed to a man for several years without knowing so much.
Her case is drawing from the streams of wisdom and calling on women, who have eyes, to read and also hear with their ears.
So, we have put together some amazing lessons for everyone of this age.
1. Know Your Husband [KYH]
How much of your husband do you know?
Hiba Abouk displayed every atom of lack of trust for her husband when she failed to defend him after the rape accusation.
Her decision to stand on the side of justice is a commendable one, but it also laid bare the truth that the husband could have done it.
If not, it could then be a drama that she had orchestrated to seek half of Achraf’s possession.
Everyone thinks she should have spoken up for Achraf whom she had lived with and had two kids for.
If she was not sure her husband could do it, that tells of something – She knows nothing about the man’s background or personality.
It is hard for a wife to live with a husband she is close to without knowing that all he had are not in his name.
2. Do Not Show Lack Of Interest In Things Your Husband Does
One undoing for a wife is if she is not showing interest in what the husband is doing.
Hiba Abouk has shown that she knows nothing about the car the husband uses which should have documents that show whose name the car was bought.
Lack of interest will make many water pass under the bridge before anything is noticed.
It could be untrue, but the fact that the rape happened in Achraf’s home, says his wife could have limited how much attention she gave the man.
Where was Hiba when her husband brought a woman to her home?
3. Men Are Becoming Smarter
If you live in the Western world, you will surely know that women have the upper hand when it comes to issues of divorce.
The African must also have known that most times, a marriage to a lady in that part of the world does not last.
As a result, Achraf had to secure ‘the bag’ with his mother.
Most men in Europe and other nations are learning new tricks to beat the law that favours women more when it comes to divorce.
4. Never Let What To Gain Be The Reason For Divorce
You see, sometimes, one may ‘erroneously’ think that Hiba had a plan before now.
Demanding for 50% of Achraf’s possession in court, bears in it every light, pointing to greed.
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If a woman bases her quest for divorce on what to gain, that is greed and wickedness.
It is possible the PSG star was aware there could be such a plan in the offing and decided to let his mother have his possessions.
If you want a divorce, ‘the Master’ says; let it be on the ground of adultery. But we also dare to say that if a man becomes violent, a woman also has the right to walk away before she dies.
But walking out with a target at what to get; that wife is just whatever anyone prefers to call her.
