Buba girl, had set her alarm to wake up early and start her day on TikTok where she had a castle and rules, but she was not aware the great day had sad, yet sweet, lessons for her.
The TikTok influencer, picked up her phone at the sound of the alarm, turned on her data and messages poured in like a deluge.
Her very close friends had seen her leaked nude video and came to her communication machine, mobilephone, to alert her of the delicate nature of her day.
She was already trending.
Other messages of people talking about her depth and width, broke her heart. It was a doom’s day she had tried to prevent, paying ransom to the blackmailer.
As she scrolls, her heartbeat shot up like an SOS light. She could hear the beat, and it was like her heart was about to explode.
Her private part had become a public talk, with her nude video showing the world her masturbation skills.
Bewildered, she knew it was a breakfast that will carry Buba girl for long days down the road of regrets.
Tears rolled down effortlessly, while her mind walks her through the road with different signposts showing lessons of life.
Indeed, she has a lot to learn, and other ladies can benefit from what her mind brought to bear as lessons.
A few things also come to our mind as we follow up on her story and we think ladies should learn these lessons. The last one is the very important one to keep your attention on before you do anything as delicate as Buba girl’s actions.
1. Never Share Nude Video/Image With Anyone, Even A Husband
Yes! sometimes, when the desire to have a woman rises in the heart of a man, many demands could be made.
One of such demands is the sharing of nude videos or images. While it stimulates a man’s mind to ejaculation, it is not everything that is expedient.
You see, we live in a country, Nigeria, where you could lose you phone anytime.
If that happens and the ungodly individual stumbles on the video, only God knows where the video will land next.
Demands for money could be made over and over again, and when you are not able to pay again, the video will still find its way to the internet.
So, plead with your husband to understand and calm down, waiting for the day of ‘live explosions of ecstasy’.
As per a lover requesting for a nude video or image, that is too extreme. You owe that lover no apology if you say no politely. He has nothing to lose if that content finds its way to the public place – internet.
2. Most Nigerian Guys Are FraudulentÂ
Believe it or not, most Nigerian young men that are ungodly could do anything for money.
The young man will concoct a plan to scam a lady and begin with wooing her.
When she accepts a relationship demand, the young man sweeps her off her feet with gifts and much love. Being a lady, she falls without boundaries, accepting to share her nude.
At that point, the ‘maga’ matures. He gets the video and then sends it to another young man to make the demands, claiming he picked up the phone.
There is nothing that scam cannot be attached to.
You see, this one takes us to the next lesson you should learn as a woman.
3. Never Trust A ‘Man’
Trust is earned and not bestowed on an individual as a title.
Indeed, when it comes to relationships, there is a limit to how much trust you should exhibit.
Trusting a young man who professes love is delicate and could be heart-wrenching.
Sadly, you will be the one to carry your cross when the video finds its way in the public place.
However, if it comes to marriage, it is encouraged that a couple should trust each other.
This is especially if the man fears God and stays faithful to his wife. ‘There is no faithful man’, you will say, but they still exist, no matter how few.
But for the fact that he could lose his phone, insist he deletes videos instantly after climax, as anything can happen to the phone the moment he steps out of the house.
4. Be The First To Post
This is risky, but sometimes it is worth it.
Once you have made that mistake of giving out a nude video to a person and he begins to make demands, understand that there will be no going back.
This is already a plan that has climaxed, and the young man will not look back while holding that plough. It cannot turn to a joke suddenly. Buba girl did not know this.
As a result, take the road that Tiwa Savage walked, posting the video before the blackmailer.
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That way, your pain is less, and people will turn to praise you for taking the bold step.
Before you take this decision, it will be amazing to remember the 5th lesson here.
5. The Internet Never Forgets
You see, the internet, as we know, is enduring time and only God knows what could wipe it off.
If only Buba girl had this at the back of her mind always, it would have saved the day, like a superhero.
As a result, you should always remember that whatever goes on the internet, stays there.
Generations to come, will see that private part that once gave a lady so much confidence. Your great-grandchildren will see it.
Do not let the ecstasy of few minutes of sexual satisfaction, drag you through the road of regret and confusion that come with blackmail.
We sincerely hope this will guide a lady out there appropriately.
If you believe this article is informative, kindly share it with another lady you know to help her make the right choice in ‘heat’ periods.Â