Valentine’s Day is one of the most talked-about days of the year. From red and white outfits to expensive gifts and social media posts, many people see it as a time to show love.
But over the years, several myths about Valentine’s Day have made some people feel pressured, left out, or even confused.
Let’s clear up five common myths that people need to stop believing.
1. Valentine’s Day Is Only for Lovers
Many people think Valentine’s Day is only for people in relationships, but that’s not true.
Love is not just about romance it includes family, friends, and even yourself.
You can celebrate the day by showing love to your siblings, parents, best friends, or anyone who has been there for you.
Even single people can enjoy the day by treating themselves to something nice.
2. You Must Buy Expensive Gifts
There is a common belief that Valentine’s Day is about buying big gifts like iPhones, designer bags, or expensive dinners at fancy restaurants.
But love is not measured by money. A thoughtful gift, a handwritten note, or even spending quality time together can mean more than an expensive present.
What matters most is the love behind the gesture, not the price tag.
3. If You Don’t Get a Gift, You’re Not Loved
Social media makes it look like everyone is receiving gifts on Valentine’s Day, but that is not always the case.
Some people don’t post their gifts, while others might not even celebrate the day.
Just because you don’t receive a gift doesn’t mean you are not loved.
Love is shown in different ways, and a single day doesn’t define how much you are valued.
4. Valentine’s Day Is Only For Women
Many people in Nigeria believe that men are supposed to be the ones giving gifts, while women just receive them.
But love should go both ways. A woman can also surprise her partner with a thoughtful gift or a special gesture.
Valentine’s Day is about mutual appreciation, not one-sided giving.
5. You Must Wear Red and White
Every year, streets and offices in Nigeria are filled with people wearing red and white on Valentine’s Day.
While it is a fun tradition, it is not a rule.
You can wear any colour you like and still celebrate love. What matters most is the meaning behind the day, not the colour of your outfit.
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