My man, my love, my heartbeat, Valentine’s Day is the true test of whether he is really yours or if you’re just a side chick.
However, if you find yourself feeling uncertain about your relationship on this day, you might be playing the role of a side chick without even realising it.
If your partner is acting suspicious or distant, here are some clear signs that you may not be their main priority.
1. He Is “Busy” on Valentine’s Day
One of the biggest red flags is if your man suddenly has work, a family emergency, or an unexpected trip on February 14th.
If he claims he can’t see you on the day but promises to make it up later, chances are, he is spending the actual Valentine’s Day with his main partner.
2. He Only Sees You the Day Before or After
If your Valentine’s Day celebration is scheduled for February 13th or 15th instead of the actual day, you might be the side chick.
Most people prioritise their main relationship for the official celebration, leaving side flings for the leftover days.
3. No Public Posts or Recognition
In today’s digital world, couples love to show off their Valentine’s Day moments on social media.
If your man avoids posting about you or refuses to be tagged in pictures, he may be hiding your relationship from someone else.
4. Your Gifts and Dinner Plans Feel Low-Effort
While the main partner gets luxury gifts, a romantic dinner, or a well-planned date, the side chick often receives last-minute or basic gifts, such as chocolates, flowers, or a rushed meet-up.
If his efforts seem half-hearted, you may not be his priority.
5. He Avoids Romantic Places
If he insists on staying indoors or choosing a low-key spot where he won’t run into anyone he knows, he could be hiding your relationship.
A man in a committed relationship would have no issue taking his partner out in public.
6. No Sleepover or Extended Time Together
A major sign you’re the side chick is if he rushes off after spending a few hours with you.
If he refuses to stay the night or makes excuses to leave, he likely has someone else waiting for him at home.
7. His Phone Is Always on Silent or Face-Down
If he keeps his phone on silent, avoids answering calls, or acts secretive about messages, he may be trying to prevent you from seeing texts from his real partner.
A man with nothing to hide wouldn’t act suspicious with his phone.
8. You Have Never Met His Friends or Family
If you have been dating for a while but have never met his close friends or family, he may be keeping you a secret.
His main partner is likely the one who is publicly acknowledged in his social circles.
If you notice these signs, it’s important to have an honest conversation with your partner.
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Ask direct questions about your relationship status and observe how he reacts.
If he becomes defensive, evasive, or dismissive, he may not have good intentions for you.
