Music star Bankole Wellington popularly known as Banky W and his actress wife Adesuwa Etomi has clocked three years today November 25, 2020.
The singer took to social media to celebrate and revealed what sustained his marriage to his fans and followers.
According to Banky W, the only reason forever is possible is because he and his wife made God the foundation of their home.
He further noted that the decision to marry his wife three years ago is the second-best decision he made in his adult life.
Read what he wrote below:
“Can “being in love” sustain a marriage?
“3 years ago, Susu and I made the decision to love each other forever. But the only reason forever is even possible, is because we made the decision to make God our foundation. And while a foundation is the part of the house that people don’t see, it’s by far the most important.
“Because you can fix cracks in the walls, refurbish the rooms and repaint the halls, but you can’t get the foundation wrong if you want any chance of the house standing at all. The structural integrity of a house requires a foundation that is built to last.
“I recently heard a Pastor say that love can’t keep a marriage going… he said it takes God and commitment. I think maybe he had a bit of a misunderstanding of what love really means. Because… well, God IS love. And love is commitment. Without both, it certainly isn’t love and it definitely won’t work. People sometimes think Susu led me to God. But it’s not true. God led me to Susu. And He has kept us through it all.”